Archive for the ‘Homeschooling’ Category

An Old Fashion Education

Wednesday, October 1st, 2008

http://oldfashionededucation.com/

An Old Fashion Education is (according to their site) a directory of free homeschool curriculum. It is also one of my personal favorite sites. I can almost always find a resource through them. Their list of subjects is comprehensive and easy to use.

Not only are individual subjects plus complete curricula resources available, but they also have 40 week lesson guides for each grade level. You can teach your children practically for free! This is one homeschool resource no family should be without.

Perfect Homeschools?

Saturday, September 13th, 2008

Would you like to know what drives me crazy? One of those sites about Christian homeschooling that shows you how perfect it is. I see site after site that shows it’s readers an unrealistic glimpse into the life of a homeschool family.

Let me set the stage:

You have a photo of the children sitting perfectly - (dressed, teeth brushed, reading &/or writing with no sign of fighting or problems) - around the kitchen table. You see the homemade jam in the background. All of mom’s friends have no problems and neither does she. They have apparently all reached a place in their spiritual growth where there is nothing left for God to work out in them.

What they don’t show you is that the photo was staged. The children were most likely told they could play on their Wii if they sat still long enough to take the photo. The phone has been ringing off the hook; mom’s hair is still in rollers; the cat just made the pile of laundry fresh out of the dryer into his litter box and dad will be home any minute because it took 9 hours to get to the point they could take the photo.

I didn’t even get started with the struggles of teaching the children!

I know that this is an exaggeration - well, sort of - and it is possible to have a productive and very successful homeschool. Really! The point of all this is that too many people only show you the good and never show you the bad.

I have had my share of good and bad days and I am sure there will be more ahead. That is life. If it isn’t a friend or neighbor in need it is the curriculum or behavior/discipline issues or maybe a headache. God never said that we would have it easy. That is why the butterfly’s chrysalis is such an important symbol of our ministry.

In our process of transformation we go through stages that lead us closer and closer to the likeness of Christ. But that chrysalis time is a messy time. It is also a necessary time if we are to transform.

Don’t give up on homeschooling just because right now it feels overwhelming. Take time out with God, let Him refresh you and guide you in homeschooling. Always remember: A bad day homeschooling for God, is always better then a good day when you are not.

This Isn’t Mrs. Cleaver’s House!

Saturday, September 13th, 2008

Most people come into homeschooling with a preconceived notion of an educational utopia. We imagine Mrs. Cleaver in her beautiful lace apron baking bread and children drinking a freshly juiced blend of carrots, celery and apples while reading, writing and smiling gleefully around the kitchen table.

No wonder then that we are absolutely devastated when just a few days into homeschooling and we find our house is a wreck, there are dirty diapers on the kitchen floor, no one has combed hair, everyone is in their jammies, dad will be home in 10 minutes, dinner isn’t even thawed and all we have to show for a school day are 3 incorrectly answered math equations.
Perhaps the mistake some of us make is in thinking that homeschooling is about cramming as much information as possible into one brain in as little time as possible. For others it might be that we think all children should instinctively know how to research a paper. The funny thing is that no matter what false perception we came into this with, we almost all start out with a common goal in mind….to train our child for his or her future.

When I first began homeschooling I came chock full of ideas as to what it should and would be. Was I in for a surprise! Maybe instead of thinking about how homeschooling should be, I should have thought about my spiritual goals and purpose in homeschooling.

If my purpose is in training my child for his life calling, then I would look at the task at hand in a whole new light. It is no longer a focus of reading 4 literary masterpieces per year but equipping my child for a lifestyle of learning under God’s instruction.
Let’s take this a step further. Since one of my goals (and I am assuming it is one of yours as well since you are reading this book) is to raise and train a child according to Holy Scripture and educate a child for his/her life and ministry calling, then I need to consult the Scripture to learn how to train, what areas to train in and when to train.

This article was taken with permission from Spirit Led Homeschooling.

Making All the Pieces Fit Together in your Homeschool Quilt

Saturday, September 13th, 2008

Imagine for a moment that you are making a quilt. You are collecting scraps of fabric in all different colors; these scraps represent the different areas of our lives. Perhaps they represent; home, work, housekeeping, friendships, hobbies, and so on.

As you lay out all the pieces you see how some pieces work together and others don’t exactly fit the color scheme. You search and search for the right materials but nothing is working. Sadly, there are many people in this exact predicament with their lives.

Our relationship with God should be the thread that runs through every quilt square of our lives. It holds the pieces together but is also such a unique color that it actually makes all the parts work together and creates harmony. Now, and only now, can the quilt be used for its intended purpose.

Wouldn’t it be wonderful if our children had that thread from the start?

Because of this I know we should not be complacent as homeschoolers who just also happen to be Christians. As Christians, we are fulfilling one of our responsibilities in the kingdom, by raising, training and educating our children in God’s Word. We also know we have a jealous God. He wants our time, attention and devotion. He wants to be the center of our lives.

Part of training our children is to encourage the growth of a personal relationship between our children and God. This doesn’t mean that we do not need to teach math or language-not by any means at all. What I am talking about is creating a Biblical world-view and foundation.

Think about it. When we create a building we first need to create a foundation. The smaller the foundation, the smaller the building. I would struggle to find a parent who would say they are satisfied knowing they provided an environment only capable of producing small foundations. I believe most parents can more effectively facilitate foundation building through homeschooling.

This article was taken with permission from Spirit Led Homeschooling.

The Theory of Multiple Intelligences

Saturday, September 13th, 2008

“reason, intelligence, logic, knowledge are not synonymous…,” Howard Gardner

One of the main advantages of home schooling is your ability to tailor your child?s lessons towards his/her specific needs. There seems to be an endless amount of information pertaining to how a child learns.

From Piaget to Glasser to Vygotsky, there is much debate as to how many learning styles there actually are. While preparing my article, I found that since my college days, Gardner?s Theory of Multiple Intelligences has grown. He has added three more potential learning styles/intelligences, only one of which we will cover here in any detail.

Gardner’s “Theory of Multiple Intelligences” is a fairly well known and usually respected theory. I tend to use this method since it seems to incorporate both new & traditional theories of education and still remain fairly comprehensive. You will find that your child has a little of each style to varying degrees. You will also see how these styles rely upon each other in developing a well-rounded education.

What is “Intelligence”?
Gardner’s definition is “the capacity to solve problems or to fashion products that are valued in one or more cultural setting”.

Each person has his/her own unique style. According to Gardner, these intelligences do not work alone. Instead, they build upon each other in a unique way for each person. What this means is that a person with very strong musical & linguistic intelligence skills may very well be a poet or songwriter. On the other hand, a person with a weak bodily-kinesthetic intelligence won?t be a ballerina no matter how strong her musical intelligence is. It is also important to note that these intelligences are not a grading system. You don?t have to be strong in a particular intelligence to be smart. On the contrary, the whole point of this theory is that there is more than one way to measure, obtain and enhance intelligence.

“…a human intellectual competence must entail a set of skills for problem solving….enabling the individual to resolve genuine problems or difficulties that he or she encounters and, when appropriate, to create an effective product…and must also entail the potential for finding or creating problems…thereby laying the groundwork for the acquisition of new knowledge… the ideal of what is valued will differ markedly across human cultures.”
-Gardner, “Frames of Mind”.

The following is a simple description to help you determine which learning styles your children has strengths and weaknesses in. From here you can research each theory more thoroughly by looking for Gardner’s books in your local library or on the Internet. I think it is important to reiterate that each of us possess all these intelligences to various degrees. It is also important to nurture the “weaker” intelligences so that you can educate and stimulate the whole child in order to create a well-rounded individual.

1. Kinesthetic Intelligence (also called bodily-kinesthetic) :
He is always busy doing something. He fidgets when staying in one place. He has to touch everything and he then takes it apart and puts it back together. These are our dancers, sports players and athletes.
This child will best learn by doing hands on experimentations.

2. Interpersonal Intelligence :
She has charisma and people flock to her. She is the social butterfly. This child learns best when she works in a group. She may also be the class peacemaker.

She remembers events and relates them to people and vice versa.

3. Intrapersonal Intelligence :
This is the child who is very self-aware. He is very introspective and really thinks about himself. This child very likely has a high self-confidence. He has a tendency to be sensitive to his environment. He is very independent and private. He is likely to make decisions that go against the mainstream because he knows what is best for him.
He learns best when he teaches himself.

4. Linguistic Intelligence :

This is a child who is a good speller and has excellent reading comprehension skills. She may be excellent in debate and have a way with words. She may have spoken early on and has maintained an above average language/vocabulary.  She learns best when she reads & writes her information.

5. Logical-Mathematical Intelligence :
This child is good at seeing patterns. He is usually very good with numbers and excels in science as well. He will most likely do well in school, as this is the type of intelligence schools were designed for. He is always asking questions. He loves strategy games such as chess. He does well with “book based studies”.

6. Musical Intelligence :
She has a knack at remembering the words to her favorite songs. She can hold a tune better then most famous rock stars. She may need music on in the background when she studies. She usually sings or hums to herself. She probably plays an instrument, can sing and can imitate other’s voices. Many, but not all of the components of this intelligence require the ability to hear. (An understanding of rhythm can be observed even in the deaf).
She learns well when the information is set to music.

7. Spatial Intelligence :
He has a photographic memory. He may be a daydreamer. He not only likes the pictures in books, but may learn more from the picture then from the text. He loves movies. This child uses mental imagery to solve problems.
He learns best when he has something concrete to look at. He may benefit greatly from educational videos or from stories that allow him to use his imagination. Gardner also makes note that even those who are blind develop this intelligence.

The following 3 are the latest additions to Gardner’s theory. He also believes that there could be other intelligences but it may be difficult to discern if he is not aware that he possess them.*

8. Natural Intelligence :
She is aware of her environment and can spot changes instantly. She can tell you the classification of a dinosaur with just a glance. She probably likes to collect natural items such as rock and plant samples and organizes them by a classification system. She may love astronomy. She probably loves all animals and would have a zoo in her room if you would only allow it.
She learns best when she can apply the information in a natural setting.

9. & 10. Spiritual Intelligence and Existential Intelligence :
To the best of my knowledge, Gardner is still debating whether these two intelligences are valid based upon his own criteria.

Hopefully you now have a better understanding of the Multiple Intelligence theory.
You can also take a Multiple Intelligence Inventory at http://www.ldrc.ca/projects/miinventory/miinventory.php

You can also sign up for a free three week internet based seminar on Multiple Intelligence Theory at
http://snow.utoronto.ca:1800/public/MultIn/index.html

For more information:
Gardner, H. “Intelligence reframed: Multiple intelligences for the 21st century”
Gardner, H. “Are there additional intelligences? The case for naturalist, spiritual, and existential intelligences” In J. Kane (Ed.), Education, information, and transformation.
Gardner, H. “Reflections on multiple intelligences”
Gardner, H. “Multiple Intelligences: The Theory in Practice”
Gardner, H. “Frames of Mind: The Theory of Multiple Intelligences”

* “Intelligence Reframed : Multiple Intelligences for the 21st Century” by Howard Gardner

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